Part 1 - The Ones Who Stay
Last night, I sat at the wedding of a dear friend I’ve known for forty years. That moment reminded me what it means to be seen, truly seen, even when time and distance have changed everything. This is a story about choosing joy — and the people who stay.
Part 2: Aging Gracefully:
As I watched one of my oldest friends say “I do,” time folded in on itself. Our parents, our children, our memories — all in one room. This is a story about growing up, side by side, grieving what we’ve lost, and learning that aging gracefully means leaving light behind.
Part 3: When the Body Breaks and the Soul Still Stands
I used to wear strength like armour. But when my body broke, I realised resilience isn’t pretending — it’s letting yourself be seen. This is the story of what it means to be loved without pity, to stop performing, and to be real — even when it hurts.
Part 4: Mistakes (The Kind That Reshape Us)
We all make mistakes — but some leave lasting cracks. In this raw and reflective piece, I explore the quiet strength it takes to let go of toxic ties, reclaim your peace, and forgive not for others — but for yourself
Part 5: Parenting With Tenderness
“Tenderness is not weakness. It’s fierce, soul-deep love in its softest clothes.”
A raw, honest reflection on parenting through pain, building resilience in our children, and choosing gentleness — even when life feels impossible
Part 6: Finding Joy in the Cracks of Chaos
Burnt out and barely functioning, I’ve learned joy doesn’t wait for life to get easier. It finds me in bath-time giggles, in golden light, in the first sip of tea. This is how I survive the storm: I gather fragments of light.
Bonus Post: The Strength in Our Scars — Survival Worn With Pride
I used to see my scars as shameful reminders of everything I’d lost. But now, I wear them with pride. From 47 surgeries to chronic pain, medical gaslighting, and years of systemic battles — this is the truth behind the woman still standing. This is what unbreakable really looks like